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🆓 Mastering Japanese Politeness Levels: Teinei, Kenjƍ, and Sonkei – A Guide for Future Professionals in Japan

Updated: Sep 18, 2025


When preparing for a career in Japan, understanding the nuances of politeness in the Japanese language is essential. Japanese society places great importance on respect, hierarchy, and social harmony, all of which are reflected in its language. This guide will introduce you to the three main levels of politeness—Teinei (䞁毧èȘž), Kenjƍ (èŹ™è­ČèȘž), and Sonkei (ć°Šæ•ŹèȘž)—with practical examples and phrases to help you communicate effectively in a professional environment.

1. Teinei (䞁毧èȘž) – Polite Language

Teinei-go is the standard polite form used in most daily and professional interactions. It is the foundation of Japanese politeness and is appropriate for speaking with colleagues, clients, and people you do not know well.

Key Features:

  • Uses the -masu and -desu endings.

  • Neutral and safe for most situations.

Examples:

  • ă‚ă‚ŠăŒăšă†ă”ă–ă„ăŸă™ (Arigatou gozaimasu) – Thank you.

  • おç–Čă‚Œæ§˜ă§ă™ (Otsukaresama desu) – Thank you for your hard work.

  • ă“ă‚ŒăŻăƒŹăƒăƒŒăƒˆă§ă™ (Kore wa repƍto desu) – This is the report.

When to Use:

  • With colleagues, clients, and superiors in everyday conversation.

  • In emails, meetings, and presentations.

2. Kenjƍ (èŹ™è­ČèȘž) – Humble Language

Kenjƍ-go is used to humble yourself or your in-group (company, family) when talking about your own actions or those of your group. It shows respect by lowering your own position relative to the listener.

Key Features:

  • Special verbs and expressions to humble yourself.

  • Used when talking about your own actions to clients or superiors.

Examples:

  • ç”łă—ăŸă™ (Mƍshimasu) – I am called (humble for èš€ă„ăŸă™ iimasu).

  • ă„ăŸă—ăŸă™ (Itashimasu) – I do (humble for ă—ăŸă™ shimasu).

  • äŒșă„ăŸă™ (Ukagaimasu) – I will visit/ask (humble for èĄŒăăŸă™ ikimasu or èžăăŸă™ kikimasu).

Sample Phrases:

  • ç§ăŻç”°äž­ăšç”łă—ăŸă™ă€‚ (Watashi wa Tanaka to mƍshimasu.) – My name is Tanaka.

  • ă”é€Łç”Ąă„ăŸă—ăŸă™ă€‚ (Gorenraku itashimasu.) – I will contact you.

When to Use:

  • When introducing yourself to a client or superior.

  • When talking about your own actions in formal business settings.

3. Sonkei (ć°Šæ•ŹèȘž) – Honorific Language

Sonkei-go is used to show respect to others by elevating their actions or status. It is essential when referring to the actions of clients, superiors, or anyone you wish to show respect to.

Key Features:

  • Special verbs and honorific prefixes (お- or ご-).

  • Used when talking about the actions of others.

Examples:

  • ă„ă‚‰ăŁă—ă‚ƒă„ăŸă™ (Irasshaimasu) – To go/come/be (honorific for èĄŒăăŸă™ ikimasu, æ„ăŸă™ kimasu, ă„ăŸă™ imasu).

  • ćŹă—äžŠăŒă‚ŠăŸă™ (Meshiagarimasu) – To eat/drink (honorific for 食ăčăŸă™ tabemasu, éŁČăżăŸă™ nomimasu).

  • ă”èŠ§ă«ăȘă‚ŠăŸă™ (Goran ni narimasu) – To see (honorific for èŠ‹ăŸă™ mimasu).

Sample Phrases:

  • ç€Ÿé•·ăŒă„ă‚‰ăŁă—ă‚ƒă„ăŸă™ă€‚ (Shachƍ ga irasshaimasu.) – The president is here.

  • ごçąșèȘăă ă•い。 (Gokakunin kudasai.) – Please confirm (honorific).

When to Use:

  • When referring to the actions of clients, superiors, or respected individuals.

  • In formal business correspondence and meetings.

Quick Reference Table

Level

Use For

Example Verb

Example Phrase

Teinei

General politeness

ă—ăŸă™

ăŠéĄ˜ă„ă—ăŸă™ (Onegaishimasu)

Kenjƍ

Humbling yourself

ă„ăŸă—ăŸă™

ă”æĄˆć†…ă„ăŸă—ăŸă™ (Go-annai itashimasu)

Sonkei

Honoring others

ăȘă•ă„ăŸă™

ăŠè©±ă—ă«ăȘă‚ŠăŸă™ (Ohanashi ni narimasu)

Tips for Learners

  • Start with Teinei-go: Master polite forms first; they are always safe.

  • Observe and Adapt: Listen to how colleagues and superiors speak.

  • Practice Set Phrases: Memorize common business expressions for each level.

  • When in Doubt, Be More Polite: It’s better to be too polite than not enough in Japanese business culture.

Conclusion

Understanding and using the correct level of politeness is crucial for building trust and respect in Japanese professional settings. By mastering Teinei-go, Kenjƍ-go, and Sonkei-go, you will not only communicate more effectively but also demonstrate your cultural awareness and professionalism—key assets for a successful career in Japan.

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